The vital ingredient, the key to success in weight loss and fitness
It’s what the world is made of, it’s what we’re made of and it’s going be the deciding factor in whether we succeed or fail in our health and fitness goals.
What am I talking about?
Energy, pure and simple energy.
Doing what I do, I hear all the excuses in the world for why people “just aren’t doing it” most of the room put up their hands.
When we look closer at what is going on, it all boils down to one thing - energy.
“Oh, Im so tired after a day at work, my job is so exhausting, I just want to collapse in front of the TV when I get in” Whats the issue? Energy.
“Im rubbish in the mornings. I press snooze for an hour and then have to rush to get ready. I need a coffee firstnthing in the morning but I do not have time for breakfast.” The issue - Energy.
“It gets to four in the afternoon and I need chocolate!” What do you really need? Energy.
By not treating the body right, but not feeding it with the right fuel or by draining it of it’s very last drip of energy, we end up running on empty. We rarely take the time to refuel, to give ourselves an MOT. We treat our bodies and minds worse than we treat our cars. We know the effect it has on a car when you try and run it on empty, yet we do this to ourselves on a regular basis.
This week I had no energy for most of the week, well that’s what it felt like anyway. I have no one to blame for that but myself. Luckily I was in a position that I had very little to do and in fact I could take some rest. Had I been at home, living my normal life I would have seriously struggled.
That was the whole point, I had used up my energy and it was time to conserve it. The body knew intuitively what I needed and when I gave it the space, that’s exactly what it did, took the opportunity to recharge the batteries.
That was the actual results of my detox, I realised this as it came to my final days. It wasn’t about the body composition analysis said although I was pleased with my results. It was about how I felt afterwards and what was going to happen from here.
Looking at my results at first I was surprised and a little disappointed. Did I come out fitter? No. Not in the sense we would usually regard fitter. My resting heart rate was up slightly, as was my blood pressure (these were very low when I started though). Did I lose immense amounts of body fat? No only about a percent.
Did I get what my blood needed? Yes absolutely. For me, I did not really need to get fitter or leaner. I needed to relax and recharge and when I gave my body the chance to do it’s stuff, it intuitively knew what to do.
It needed me to stop “doing” and enjoy “being” for a while.
It took me a while to get this and it was in this process of “being” that I was able to rebuild my energy. I did this through yoga and meditation, breathing practise, spending time in nature, getting some amazing treatments but more importantly taking time out. Out of my busy body and out of my busy mind.
Over here in India they refer to this energy as “Prana” or life force and it is everywhere, both within us and outside us. Everything is about maintaining our prana and we can do this by leading a simple disciplined life or just by putting in small rituals to each day that help replace our lost energy.
I think most of us are guilty of using up our vital energy with all the other things in life that we see as important. Or wasting it with things like TV which we do not realise are still robbing us of our energy.
So many of the people I coach easily solve their issues through something simple like getting to bed earlier, having an evening routine that involves sitting down at a table to eat slowly and mindfully having bedtime rituals like a bath and a good book, instead of TV plus a bottle of wine and all the nibbles that go with it.
Or simply walking or cycling to work, instead of more rushing around to get to the gym after work. Or getting up when the alarm goes off and having a good start to the day. Or getting out of the office at lunchtime and actually taking a break.
Whatever it is we need to make sure we are regularly paying into the energy bank instead of just withdrawing all the time.
Then just maybe we will have enough left to do the things we really want to do.

